The Man’s Way to Finding True Hivhookup Love
Every one of us is looking for an ideal partner, the person who fulfils our need to be and love loved. How can you end up with an ideal partner who’ll love you with all her heart?
( In the Garden of Eden).
Eve: Adam, do you love me?
Adam: Who else?
As a man grows older, if he is fortunate enough, he learns how to look beyond exterior beauty because all women are beautiful nowadays, aren’t they? It can give a man one big headache to identify a woman who is truly compatible with him in soul, body, and mind. Thus a man, who does not make fine distinctions into character and personality, may find that many women appeal to him.
* Desire is bad for you? *.
The attraction between women and men is biological, it’s inherited and it’s unstoppable. A pious man who has the opportunity to meet an attractive woman may tell himself, “No! And unless he can come to terms with his desire– see it as a guiding force, rather than an urge to be suppressed– he may never end up with a woman he truly wants.
* Men and Women: Not So Different *.
People like to believe that women and men are really different, but by nature they aren’t. Really, women and men are very similar. It’s just one big reversal.
” Okay then,” you say. “What about the difference in the way men and women think?
Women and men act differently, that’s not so much a biological instinct as it is a cultural role they are taught to play. Men don’t automatically love soccer, beer drinking, or going to the gym– they are culturally programmed to adopt these behaviours because it brings them greater social approval.
” A man who does not watch soccer is not ‘one of the boys’; a man who does not drink beer is not real man; a man who’s muscular earns the respect of his peers and is more attractive to women.”.
These are beliefs so deeply ingrained into us that people might tell you it’s a fact, just like how women learn about the importance of being beautiful from magazines, television, and friends. From young, everything about our culture teaches the sexes to differentiate themselves.
Being too focused on the exterior of a person, you only see the cultural and physical difference– the behaviours and accessories created to differentiate the sexes. They have wants and desires, dislikes and hates; they communicate through language; they have two eyes, one nose, one mouth, two ears, ten fingers and ten toes. Just talk to them as you would any casual person, and you’ll see that even the most attractive person is easy to chat with.
* Being Worthy *.
Women will choose the men they want to be with. A man should not worry about trying to ‘get a woman’– she will choose the man she wants. Understand that these women are also looking for him, but not that old sloppy version of him, they want the new well-groomed, emotionally and financially secure, warm-hearted and entertaining man, where they can lie safely in his arms, protected from a harsh and crazy world.
* Love is a commitment *.
To sustain hivhookup love, two people have to choose each other. It doesn’t matter how much you love the other person, if they do not return your love. The girl will visit him in hospital, where with his dying breath he whispers his last words of undying love … then he dies.
A great hivhookup love relationship is not something you find, but something you build and commit yourself to. There are tons of beautiful people in the world and many who will seem more attractive to you than your partner. They do their partner hopping, exchanging and dating, in search of the greenest lawn, but they’ll never find it because a beautiful relationship, like a beautiful garden, must be tended to and cared for.
* An Uncommitted Partner *.
She may be on the lookout for the ideal guy who can fulfil her fantasies and whims … some idealistic vision of what a man should be. What you can do in this case, is not to give up hope yet, but put your full effort into convincing her you’re the man of her dreams. And as a man who still cares for her, the best you can do is allow her to follow her dreams.
A man does not have to worry about chasing women if he’s focused on being the best he can be. By turning himself into an attractor rather than an attacker, he lifts himself above the neediness and hunger most men portray. Women are naturally attracted to him because he fulfils what they want in a man.
It can give a man one big headache to identify a woman who is truly compatible with him in body, soul, and mind. Women will choose the men they want to be with. A man should not worry about trying to ‘get a woman’– she will choose the man she wants. Understand that these women are also looking for him, but not that old sloppy version of him, they want the new well-groomed, emotionally and financially secure, warm-hearted and entertaining man, where they can lie safely in his arms, protected from a harsh and crazy world. Women are naturally attracted to him because he fulfils what they want in a man.